I tried to write a post in BM last time, & now I wanna try Chinese haha... anyway I'm still banana...so any mistakes please forgive me & do tell me to improve OK? Don't laugh a the Chinese harrr...
To people around me, family, friend, "someone".....
I may not like you at times, but I do love you (all)...
有时候我不喜欢你
Sometimes I do not like you
因为你不理解我的做法
Because you do not understand my way of doing things
但是我选择体谅你的想法
But I decide to show understanding to your opinion
因为我爱你
Because I loved you
就算我们个人看法不一样
Eventhough our individual way of looking at things is not the same
有时候我不喜欢你
Sometimes I do not like you
因为你误会我的意义
Because you misunderstand my meaning
但是我选择接受你的意思
But I decide to accept your idea
因为我爱你
Because I loved you
就算我们偶尔意见不一样
Eventhough sometimes our opinion is not the same
有时候我不喜欢你
Sometimes I do not like you
因为你不关心我的情况
Because you do not show care to my situation
但是我选择关怀你的情绪
But I decide to show concern to your feeling
因为我爱你
Because I loved you
就算我们关乎的事不一样
Eventhough our matters of concern is not the same
有时候我不喜欢你
Sometimes I do not like you
因为你不尊敬我的智力
Because you do not respect my intellect
但是我选择尊重你的智慧
But I decide to respect your wisdom
因为我爱你
Because I loved you
就算我们有的知识不一样
Eventhough we possessed knowledge which is not the same
有时候我不喜欢你
Sometimes I do not like you
因为你不珍视我的一些
Because you do not cherish my certain things
但是我选择欣赏你的一切
But I decide to appreciate your everything
因为我爱你
Because I loved you
就算我们一定一点不一样
Eventhough we for sure something are not the same
有时候我不喜欢你
Sometimes I do not like you
因为你觉得我不可信赖
Because you feel that I cannot be trusted
但是我选择决定你可依赖
But I decide to resolve that you can be relied upon
因为我爱你
Because I loved you
就算我们绝对会有不一样
Eventhough we are absolutely not the same
爱是当你能选择爱虽然有你不喜欢的差别
Love is when you are able to decide to love although there are differences which you do not like
因为爱是一个选择
Because love is a decision
Not only in courtship or romance or marriage, but FAMILY & FRIENDS as well. Who said I can't love my family & friends?
Inspired by some peoples.....especially a special friend of mine & an interview of a married couple, & two sermons
Monday, June 14, 2010
Friday, June 11, 2010
Count your blessings
Sometimes I wonder that my life actually is really a blessed life, unlike some other friends of mine, that they had issues in life. Should I count my blessings? Here's a simple checklist for myself.
Self::
Physical disabilities? No (wear specs do not count k)
Genetic defects? No (other than botak which I count as a blessing haha)
Health problems? Nothing serious that I know of
Looks? I got no problem with how I look....I'm HANDSOME in heart
Intelligence? As long as I'm not dumb is ok ^^
Family:
Divorced parents? They both are still very loving :p
Sibling rivalry? Me & my bro getting along well
Traumatic death in family? Nope...those deaths are normal & predictable
Some hidden past or whatsoever? Don't think so...
Bad relationship? I'm good with all (that matters to me)
Friends:
Hurtful betrayal? Not really, I'm a lovable friend
Rejected? Again... no
Negative influence? I'm wise in friend choice :p
Attachment issues? Nope... I can live on
No real friends (heart to heart)? I have I have!
Courtship & sexuality:
Problems loving? Not at all
Rejections? Ya, but I'm happy over it :p
Sexual immorality? Duh....never.....
Abnormal preference? What the????
Gender/sexuality problem? Never...I'm a normal healthy straight male...
Misc:
Finance? I'm quite happy & blessed
Criminal record? I'm clean
Sexual abuse/raped/molested? I'm still pure & virgin =.="
Communication problem? Not much...just frequency difference
Suicidal intention before? I'm way too alive
etc....
I don't really experience all this problems that some of my friends faced. So sometimes I don;t really know how to give advice to people. I can't really understand how they feel. All I can is understand them, & feel what they feel. Sometimes I felt "Am I in any position to advice or guide them?"... I do not know. There are times I felt that this or that person had went through such experience....while me? Nothing.
So what is God's purpose putting me in midst of people who have all this issues in life?
Even my testimony of how I met Christ (or actually...reversed) is so simple that I felt it's not impactful enough. But sometime ago God rebuked me...haha. Testimony is a true story. Not a magical fairy tales with exciting adventure. & then I realized I accepted God because of truth, not because of miracles. Like how people always say, chase after the healer not the healing, the creator not the creation, the source not the signs. God is God because He is God, not because of miracles. I don't need a parted sea, pillar of cloud and fire, raising of dead or feeding of thousands to remind me who is God.
God also reminded me to actually count my blessings, don't compare lives. There is no point dwelling on the past issues, as God wants us to see the blessings, not the "curses". So perhaps, all I can tell others is... "look....your life may have xxx or yyy problems, but someday God can turn it into blessings just like how I experienced it in my life". Actually if I were to say my life is problem free it's a lie. But i decided to put the problems aside on just look at how blessed I am. That's all that matters.
"Your problems may be bigger than mine, but it will never be bigger than God who can bring even bigger blessing into your life. Look unto the truth & not the circumstances & the truth will set you free from these circumstances"
Self::
Physical disabilities? No (wear specs do not count k)
Genetic defects? No (other than botak which I count as a blessing haha)
Health problems? Nothing serious that I know of
Looks? I got no problem with how I look....I'm HANDSOME in heart
Intelligence? As long as I'm not dumb is ok ^^
Family:
Divorced parents? They both are still very loving :p
Sibling rivalry? Me & my bro getting along well
Traumatic death in family? Nope...those deaths are normal & predictable
Some hidden past or whatsoever? Don't think so...
Bad relationship? I'm good with all (that matters to me)
Friends:
Hurtful betrayal? Not really, I'm a lovable friend
Rejected? Again... no
Negative influence? I'm wise in friend choice :p
Attachment issues? Nope... I can live on
No real friends (heart to heart)? I have I have!
Courtship & sexuality:
Problems loving? Not at all
Rejections? Ya, but I'm happy over it :p
Sexual immorality? Duh....never.....
Abnormal preference? What the????
Gender/sexuality problem? Never...I'm a normal healthy straight male...
Misc:
Finance? I'm quite happy & blessed
Criminal record? I'm clean
Sexual abuse/raped/molested? I'm still pure & virgin =.="
Communication problem? Not much...just frequency difference
Suicidal intention before? I'm way too alive
etc....
I don't really experience all this problems that some of my friends faced. So sometimes I don;t really know how to give advice to people. I can't really understand how they feel. All I can is understand them, & feel what they feel. Sometimes I felt "Am I in any position to advice or guide them?"... I do not know. There are times I felt that this or that person had went through such experience....while me? Nothing.
So what is God's purpose putting me in midst of people who have all this issues in life?
Even my testimony of how I met Christ (or actually...reversed) is so simple that I felt it's not impactful enough. But sometime ago God rebuked me...haha. Testimony is a true story. Not a magical fairy tales with exciting adventure. & then I realized I accepted God because of truth, not because of miracles. Like how people always say, chase after the healer not the healing, the creator not the creation, the source not the signs. God is God because He is God, not because of miracles. I don't need a parted sea, pillar of cloud and fire, raising of dead or feeding of thousands to remind me who is God.
God also reminded me to actually count my blessings, don't compare lives. There is no point dwelling on the past issues, as God wants us to see the blessings, not the "curses". So perhaps, all I can tell others is... "look....your life may have xxx or yyy problems, but someday God can turn it into blessings just like how I experienced it in my life". Actually if I were to say my life is problem free it's a lie. But i decided to put the problems aside on just look at how blessed I am. That's all that matters.
"Your problems may be bigger than mine, but it will never be bigger than God who can bring even bigger blessing into your life. Look unto the truth & not the circumstances & the truth will set you free from these circumstances"
The reason for blogging
Wow...again I took a very long off from blogs... kinda lost motivations nowadays to blog... the reason?
Why I lost the passion to blog?
I think it's better to view it why I blog in the first place...
There's many types of blogs (my own classifications)
Some are like diaries, some like travel guide, some like conteng-conteng page, etc.For me my blog is where I express things where it's not suitable/offensive/embarrassing/whatsoever to be said either face to face, or has no specific target audience, just sharing what's deep in my heart. Put it simple, it's where I say things honestly.
Well that makes myself vulnerable to attacks made based on what I write. People can just shoot me based on what I say here. That's the reason I lost the passion to blog. Please stop being an asshole by trying to show how great you are by lowering me. I have NO RESPECT for people who do not know how to respect their friend.
Some adults are right. Many "young adults" are still kids....do not know how to respect people...
Anyway I still will once a while write some craps.... :p
Why I lost the passion to blog?
I think it's better to view it why I blog in the first place...
There's many types of blogs (my own classifications)
Some are like diaries, some like travel guide, some like conteng-conteng page, etc.For me my blog is where I express things where it's not suitable/offensive/embarrassing/whatsoever to be said either face to face, or has no specific target audience, just sharing what's deep in my heart. Put it simple, it's where I say things honestly.
Well that makes myself vulnerable to attacks made based on what I write. People can just shoot me based on what I say here. That's the reason I lost the passion to blog. Please stop being an asshole by trying to show how great you are by lowering me. I have NO RESPECT for people who do not know how to respect their friend.
Some adults are right. Many "young adults" are still kids....do not know how to respect people...
Anyway I still will once a while write some craps.... :p
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