Saturday, November 29, 2008
Away for a while...
I'm going Indonesia from 20th November until 5th December. Anything just leave message online. Thanks.
Monday, November 24, 2008
SK vs SJKC
I noticed this in my university life. No offence guys. As I said, If you can't take it, then don't even atempt to read my blog.
Most (NOT ALL) Chinese that studied in Chinese school during their primary & secondary seems to be a bit racist, only mixing with their so-called "orang sendiri". Meanwhile those who studied in "Sekolah Kebangsaan" seems to have no problems mixing with other races at all.
Everone knows that, it's pointless to say much. But what I wanna emphasis here is the reason what made me decide to voice it out.
There was once a proposal to establish "Kelab Biologi" for my course. There's a meeting to discuss on what to do if it really came to real. Of course like most public universities, it's all mostly participated by Malays. What I see was saddening to me. The SK types volunteeringly participated while those SJKC type all are MISSING IN ACTION. WHat is in the minds of UNIVERSITY STUDENTS that people say has the better mentalitycompared to others?
It seems the MALAYS are even more MALAYSIAN (not MALAYsian, really MALAYSIAN) than the SJKC peoples. Somehow I sensed those SJKC peoples has this "superior" attitude, refusing to mix with others...(faham-faham lah what I meant).
Another incident that also frustates me happens in SUKSIS when new juniors are coming in & we are supposed to get new members. I was asked to find more Chinese members. One of my friend told me that some when asked why refuse to join is because they don't wanna play togather with the XXXXX's people. What is wrong with them? See the ego there?
When I was working for my industrial training at MARDI Serdang, we had "jamuan" occasionally. One of the RA praised my because eventhough I was a Chinese, I can eat without using fork & sppon togather with them & I can take Malay foods easily & even join in the "jamuan kecil". I was shocked at that time. Not to boast myself, actually what's so great with this? Then I realized something. There's another student at the opposite lab (Chinese) did not join in. Eventhough she refused politely, I can sense it's because of the "Chinese ego".
What is wrong with Chinese students nowadays? Too egoistic? Think they are too great with their super high CGPA of 4.0 yet has no skill to communicate with other races? I myself being a CHinese seriously disagree with their "HOLIER THAN THOU" attitude.
If you say I'm being naive, I would say you too ridiculous fighting over some one-player war which nobody cares anymore. Most racist people are from traditional family. The new ones are not. See the pattern? Why carry the burdern & remorse from your grand grand grand g g g g ........ parents racism issue which will not serve any better purpose in your life?
God bless the readers....
Most (NOT ALL) Chinese that studied in Chinese school during their primary & secondary seems to be a bit racist, only mixing with their so-called "orang sendiri". Meanwhile those who studied in "Sekolah Kebangsaan" seems to have no problems mixing with other races at all.
Everone knows that, it's pointless to say much. But what I wanna emphasis here is the reason what made me decide to voice it out.
There was once a proposal to establish "Kelab Biologi" for my course. There's a meeting to discuss on what to do if it really came to real. Of course like most public universities, it's all mostly participated by Malays. What I see was saddening to me. The SK types volunteeringly participated while those SJKC type all are MISSING IN ACTION. WHat is in the minds of UNIVERSITY STUDENTS that people say has the better mentalitycompared to others?
It seems the MALAYS are even more MALAYSIAN (not MALAYsian, really MALAYSIAN) than the SJKC peoples. Somehow I sensed those SJKC peoples has this "superior" attitude, refusing to mix with others...(faham-faham lah what I meant).
Another incident that also frustates me happens in SUKSIS when new juniors are coming in & we are supposed to get new members. I was asked to find more Chinese members. One of my friend told me that some when asked why refuse to join is because they don't wanna play togather with the XXXXX's people. What is wrong with them? See the ego there?
When I was working for my industrial training at MARDI Serdang, we had "jamuan" occasionally. One of the RA praised my because eventhough I was a Chinese, I can eat without using fork & sppon togather with them & I can take Malay foods easily & even join in the "jamuan kecil". I was shocked at that time. Not to boast myself, actually what's so great with this? Then I realized something. There's another student at the opposite lab (Chinese) did not join in. Eventhough she refused politely, I can sense it's because of the "Chinese ego".
What is wrong with Chinese students nowadays? Too egoistic? Think they are too great with their super high CGPA of 4.0 yet has no skill to communicate with other races? I myself being a CHinese seriously disagree with their "HOLIER THAN THOU" attitude.
If you say I'm being naive, I would say you too ridiculous fighting over some one-player war which nobody cares anymore. Most racist people are from traditional family. The new ones are not. See the pattern? Why carry the burdern & remorse from your grand grand grand g g g g ........ parents racism issue which will not serve any better purpose in your life?
God bless the readers....
2 Questions
I was once asked by a friend of mine this two questions. I can't really recall the exact questions but I will put it in my way which has the same meaning.
1) You have a sickness & a doctor told you if you don't trust him to cure you, he will kill you. But if you don't get cured, you will die. Will you trust this doctor (who kills)?
2) A father got separated from his child since birth. His child do not know him since birth. Do the father has the right to punish his child for not acknowledging this father?
The moment I was asked this two question, I knew something is wrong. Just that at that time, I was not really equipped to answer such thing out of sudden. It was one of my regretful moment. If you observed the two questions carefully, obviously these two questions are related to Christianity.
1) You have a sickness & a doctor told you if you don't trust him to cure you, he will kill you. But if you don't get cured, you will die. Will you trust this doctor (who kills)?
What he meant:
If you are a sinner & God tells you if you do not put your faith in Him, He will kill you. Will you trust a God who kills?
2) A father got separated from his child since birth. His child do not know him since birth. Do the father has the right to punish his child for not acknowledging this father?
What he meant:
A person do not know God since birth. The person never knew there's God. Do God has the right to judge the person who never knew Him?
I failed to answer him at that time. I kena tricked. Actually I wanna correct him on something.
1) You have a sickness & a doctor told you if you don't trust him to cure you, he will kill you. But if you don't get cured, you will die. Will you trust this doctor (who kills)?
God never condemns people. A person dies because of the "sickness" not because the "doctor" kills the "patient". It is the "patient" who refuse to find the "doctor" & trust him. The "doctor" welcomes all who seeks his treatment but it seems that those "patients" are the one refusing to come to the "doctor".
2) A father got separated from his child since birth. His child do not know him since birth. Do the father has the right to punish his child for not acknowledging this father?
Actually it is not really true that all "lost child" do not know the "father". It is just they do not know that is their "father". Many times people spread & share Gospel but people just ignored it. & yet they say they never heard of Jesus.
Lolz. Just to release out... Nothing special.
1) You have a sickness & a doctor told you if you don't trust him to cure you, he will kill you. But if you don't get cured, you will die. Will you trust this doctor (who kills)?
2) A father got separated from his child since birth. His child do not know him since birth. Do the father has the right to punish his child for not acknowledging this father?
The moment I was asked this two question, I knew something is wrong. Just that at that time, I was not really equipped to answer such thing out of sudden. It was one of my regretful moment. If you observed the two questions carefully, obviously these two questions are related to Christianity.
1) You have a sickness & a doctor told you if you don't trust him to cure you, he will kill you. But if you don't get cured, you will die. Will you trust this doctor (who kills)?
What he meant:
If you are a sinner & God tells you if you do not put your faith in Him, He will kill you. Will you trust a God who kills?
2) A father got separated from his child since birth. His child do not know him since birth. Do the father has the right to punish his child for not acknowledging this father?
What he meant:
A person do not know God since birth. The person never knew there's God. Do God has the right to judge the person who never knew Him?
I failed to answer him at that time. I kena tricked. Actually I wanna correct him on something.
1) You have a sickness & a doctor told you if you don't trust him to cure you, he will kill you. But if you don't get cured, you will die. Will you trust this doctor (who kills)?
God never condemns people. A person dies because of the "sickness" not because the "doctor" kills the "patient". It is the "patient" who refuse to find the "doctor" & trust him. The "doctor" welcomes all who seeks his treatment but it seems that those "patients" are the one refusing to come to the "doctor".
2) A father got separated from his child since birth. His child do not know him since birth. Do the father has the right to punish his child for not acknowledging this father?
Actually it is not really true that all "lost child" do not know the "father". It is just they do not know that is their "father". Many times people spread & share Gospel but people just ignored it. & yet they say they never heard of Jesus.
Lolz. Just to release out... Nothing special.
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Additive Effect
I went to have dinner with my buddies after my 1st exam paper last Friday. Because I'm insane & nuts I celebrated the 1st paper with champagne. Where got people celebrate 1st day of exam? If want celebrate pun celebrate lah last day of exam. The actual reason is I'm keeping that bottle too long in my room. Hehehe. Wanna "eliminate" it A.S.A.P. Muahaha.
During the journey we all (me, Harry, WW, KinYip, Monty) is in dunno what craziness-gay mood. Without realizing I dunno who shake the champagne a bit. Everyone did the same I think. So many people shake it a bit a bit. Of course nobody will shake the bottle "tremendously" as we fear it might "burst" when we opened it. I still wanna drink it. Not gonna waste it as a burst fountain.
After we had arrived at destination, of course KinYip opened the bottle without realizing EVERYONE has built up the pressure within the liquid. Everyone contributed a bit without realizing it. When he opened it, BURST!!! I think the "fountain" rose as high as 60-80cm in the air. Not kidding! Everyone was shocked.
KinYip was not the one to be blamed. It's not his fault. It's OUR fault, EVERYONE's fault. Who ask us to all shake it?
[After the reduction of drink due to the burst, this is all left. One cup divided into 5]
Enough of story time.
Sometimes people tend to build up emotion/pressure in themselves r in others without realizing it. Yes, because it's just a little. A little as itself surely has no significant effect. Imagine what happens if the person is subjected to the same kind of emotion everyday? & then when something happens to trigger the "detonator", BOMB!!! Just like KinYip opened the cover without knowing the pressure built by 5 of us SEPARATELY but ADDITIVELY, the champagne burst!
If someone handed you a "shaken" soft drink can, how can you open it without bursting ? You open the can sikit-sikit to allow the pressure to be released outside then when the pressure is low enough, you open it all straight away.
The same concept applies in human emotions as well. You never know you has built up emotional pressure in people around you bit by bit. You can never see through the can is shaken before or not. All you can do is prevent from shaking it & hand it to burst in other's hand.
When bad things happen, the one who detonated the bomb is the one who gets all the scoldings & yelling & curses. But most of the time, those who bising-bising marah orang themselves are the one who contribute the larger portion for the pressure. I believe this scenario is very common around.
People won't angry to you for no reason.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
People won't hate you for no reason.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
People won't boycott you for no reason.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
PEOPLE WON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR NO REASON.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
Matthew 7:3-5
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye."
Again this is sensitive & emotional. My blog is based on real life experience. Of course human life experience is like this. Don't blame me for being emotional & sensitive blog writer as well. Muahahaha.
During the journey we all (me, Harry, WW, KinYip, Monty) is in dunno what craziness-gay mood. Without realizing I dunno who shake the champagne a bit. Everyone did the same I think. So many people shake it a bit a bit. Of course nobody will shake the bottle "tremendously" as we fear it might "burst" when we opened it. I still wanna drink it. Not gonna waste it as a burst fountain.
After we had arrived at destination, of course KinYip opened the bottle without realizing EVERYONE has built up the pressure within the liquid. Everyone contributed a bit without realizing it. When he opened it, BURST!!! I think the "fountain" rose as high as 60-80cm in the air. Not kidding! Everyone was shocked.
KinYip was not the one to be blamed. It's not his fault. It's OUR fault, EVERYONE's fault. Who ask us to all shake it?
[After the reduction of drink due to the burst, this is all left. One cup divided into 5]
Enough of story time.
Sometimes people tend to build up emotion/pressure in themselves r in others without realizing it. Yes, because it's just a little. A little as itself surely has no significant effect. Imagine what happens if the person is subjected to the same kind of emotion everyday? & then when something happens to trigger the "detonator", BOMB!!! Just like KinYip opened the cover without knowing the pressure built by 5 of us SEPARATELY but ADDITIVELY, the champagne burst!
If someone handed you a "shaken" soft drink can, how can you open it without bursting ? You open the can sikit-sikit to allow the pressure to be released outside then when the pressure is low enough, you open it all straight away.
The same concept applies in human emotions as well. You never know you has built up emotional pressure in people around you bit by bit. You can never see through the can is shaken before or not. All you can do is prevent from shaking it & hand it to burst in other's hand.
When bad things happen, the one who detonated the bomb is the one who gets all the scoldings & yelling & curses. But most of the time, those who bising-bising marah orang themselves are the one who contribute the larger portion for the pressure. I believe this scenario is very common around.
People won't angry to you for no reason.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
People won't hate you for no reason.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
People won't boycott you for no reason.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
PEOPLE WON'T FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU FOR NO REASON.
- ask yourself what had you done. Instead of blaming him/her, examine yourself.
Matthew 7:3-5
"Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye."
Again this is sensitive & emotional. My blog is based on real life experience. Of course human life experience is like this. Don't blame me for being emotional & sensitive blog writer as well. Muahahaha.
Saturday, November 1, 2008
Sorry
Everyone,
I don't mean to attack anyone. I know my blog is very emotional & sensitive. Please maintain your cool when reading ya! Thanks!
I don't mean to attack anyone. I know my blog is very emotional & sensitive. Please maintain your cool when reading ya! Thanks!
Farewell Puppy.....
Please read my previous post "A Lesson From A Dog" before reading this. Thanks.
Today my my mom ask me to send the puppy somewhere else as it is starving. We can't feed it everyday. & the smell is strong. Unless we seriously take it as our pet & bela it, if not then we can't keep it in our compund. Since we can't we have no other choice but to...say goodbye.
I took the dog outside in my car & I drop it outside some kopitiam hoping it can find foods there. When I put it on the ground, I quickly entered my car. I want to drove away but then something caught my eye.
It was looking for me...with those "crying" bark..wandering around the area. I can't stand it anymore. Looking at it from a place where it cant' see me...I also cried. Then a bigger stray dog approached the puppy & the puppy ran away & hid under my car, in fear...The stray dog is much lager than the cute lil puppy. How can it survive outside like that?
I really have no other choice but to be really KERAS HATI & get out from there. I cried all the way back home. Sorry puppy. PleaseHope you wil find a new better owner.
Today my my mom ask me to send the puppy somewhere else as it is starving. We can't feed it everyday. & the smell is strong. Unless we seriously take it as our pet & bela it, if not then we can't keep it in our compund. Since we can't we have no other choice but to...say goodbye.
I took the dog outside in my car & I drop it outside some kopitiam hoping it can find foods there. When I put it on the ground, I quickly entered my car. I want to drove away but then something caught my eye.
It was looking for me...with those "crying" bark..wandering around the area. I can't stand it anymore. Looking at it from a place where it cant' see me...I also cried. Then a bigger stray dog approached the puppy & the puppy ran away & hid under my car, in fear...The stray dog is much lager than the cute lil puppy. How can it survive outside like that?
I really have no other choice but to be really KERAS HATI & get out from there. I cried all the way back home. Sorry puppy. PleaseHope you wil find a new better owner.
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